Each wing beat in perfect synchronicity. Each breath as one.
So trust your gut feeling. It will tell you what you need, if only you put down the todo list long enough to hear it!
I mean the friend who always has your back but is not afraid to call you out on your bullshit if you have lost site of reality and fallen into the well of self pity.
Sometimes awesome things do happen when you are the only witness and isn't that a privilege worth celebrating?